Keep your face always towards the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you!
It’s often said that a positive mind leads to a positive life. According to the law of conservation of energy, energy can neither be created nor be destroyed. Hence, whatever energy you put into the universe is what you receive. This is why it’s essential to have a positive spin on everything.
In our day-to-day life, we often exaggerate and use absolutes which are extremely unhealthy. Alongside steering away from this habit, one should also stop dwelling on negative thoughts. The moment there is a negative idea in your head, stall it or counter it with a positive one.
One should live life constantly looking towards the positive and bright side of it instead of focusing on the negative. Accentuating your strengths and assets will help you be far more productive than ranting about your supposed flaws. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Contrary to popular belief, blowing it is a great learning technique. You might not have achieved your goal but now you know what not to do, which is as valuable a lesson as any.
A lot of people feel like a failure because of their own unrealistic expectations. It’s a good thing to aspire but don’t forget to be realistic too. Encourage yourself to be the best version of yourself every day, and on days you don’t feel like it, don’t be guilty. There were days even Barack Obama failed but instead of beating himself up, he just got up and tried again. You’re your best critique, so encourage yourself and don’t forget to reward yourself. Implementing such thought processes will take you a long way in achieving your goals and being the person, you truly aspire to be!